tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-282526373968944749.post1026231415327658935..comments2023-05-07T01:52:12.913-07:00Comments on My Life with A.D.D/A.D.H.D.: Dating and ADHDAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09947439624322246610noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-282526373968944749.post-90533613058565146492014-09-22T12:54:51.943-07:002014-09-22T12:54:51.943-07:00so I replied to this and it's not showing up, ...so I replied to this and it's not showing up, so if there ends up being 2 comments, that's what...<br /><br />I've definitely had my share of sheisty relationships, most of which were due to my inability to communicate with women. So I'll be the first to admit that I'm no expert on the matter... but it seems to me like you should tell him you feel this way. If you don't try to discuss this with him, you are only guaranteeing that he'll never understand you, right? Discussion will get results. They may not be the desired results, but any results would be better than letting a relationship grow stagnant, right?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09947439624322246610noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-282526373968944749.post-68923738899940285442014-09-18T16:34:21.820-07:002014-09-18T16:34:21.820-07:00I am a people pleaser who seems to date and marry ...I am a people pleaser who seems to date and marry narcissists, so I do not understand why they want to divorce me. Oh wait, you said something about attention, didn't you? After a while people pleasing ADD'ers want to be on the receiving end of some attention too. I started to think my current husband never loved me. So I stopped giving him attention to see if he would give me any in order to find out if he even still wanted some from me. Ah...that didn't go over so well. Yeah, I suck at relationships. I am happy for you that your wife is awesome. I wish my husband understood me.CrownofVirtueWannabehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04723193336259739947noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-282526373968944749.post-38474495529036575172014-09-17T15:58:14.833-07:002014-09-17T15:58:14.833-07:00just to be clear: I'm happily married and have...just to be clear: I'm happily married and have no business giving dating advice. And yet, that's what this turned into, as I was thinking about how screwed up my dating experiences were. Feel free to debate any of this :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09947439624322246610noreply@blogger.com